TRANSPARENCY

Dealing with many situations that include conflict with people there is something you can do.  One idea is always putting yourself in their shoes even if they do not do the same by thought  you are feeling more for the other person.  The second thing is letting go of whatever anger you have because that will just age you and harm your health. I remember getting overly emotional about the smallest things either hearing that someone was talking bad or just relationship problems. Life is a journey and its a journey for you to learn and grow.

“Transparency reveals your character of having integrity, justice for all and truthfulness.” -Ahil Sinha

Being truthful in a situation can be so hard but the ability to appreciate the truth to what you know is honorable. I remember I told a friend about her boyfriend cheated on her with a friend of mine. She got angry with me and befriended that other girl and they both decided that it was me trying to manipulate the situation. You see the truth is I had nothing to lose I just wanted the truth to come out and with that I let them belittle me and take blame. I thought to myself it does not matter at this point in life because the truth will always come out somehow. Sometimes when you tell the truth, the blame comes out on others or yourself. That’s okay it just means its hard for them to understand your truthfulness. With telling the truth it becomes who you are and developing a habit of being more truthful. You can go through life living honestly and it will free you from creating bad habits of lies and blossoming more into an open person. You will hear truth about anything and you will simply take it for what it is and won’t affect you much. You will understand that truthfulness is a gift just like your time. Who you give your time to is a huge gift because time is precious. You have all the time in the world to grow but grow with others that want to develop themselves.

Transparency lets you into the hearts of others and lets you understand people. When you feel transparent you are also loving yourself and loving the other person. Loving yourself is being honest with yourself and other people. Even if you are afraid of truth you have the outcome of recognizing more of who you are through transparency. A constant change can only grow your thoughts and come to a deeper level of understanding.